7 Tips To Look Stylish Without Trying Too Hard (Master Sprezzatura & Look Amazing With No Effort)

7 Tips To Look Stylish Without Trying Too Hard (Master Sprezzatura & Look Amazing With No Effort)


Look Stylish Without Trying
[0:00:00] If you’re around men’s style long enough,
you’re going to hear the word sprezzatura. It’s a four hundred-year old Italian word
that for many guys is the [pintacle] of men’s style. It’s to look sharp, to look amazing without
even trying. So, how to achieve that? Guys, that’s the subject of today’s video. [Music]
Tip number one. Make sure everything in your wardrobe coordinates. You’re going to for the interchangeable
wardrobe. That’s where all of your shoes, all of your
trousers, all of your shirts, all of your jackets work together. So, you got three pairs of shoes that are
interchangeable with three trousers with three shirts with three jackets. That’s eighty one combinations. That’s almost enough clothing to go three
months without wearing the same thing. So, let’s start off with a section of the
interchangeable wardrobe – your footwear. What you want to do is stick with a similar
color or a series of colors in each section, so with your trousers, with your shirts, with
your boots. I love boots, they simply work for my area
and you notice right here, I’ve got two different shades. They’re about the same style, then I bring
in a different shade, but a different style. And you notice because they’re all brown,
I can safely assume, okay, all of my accessories are going to work with this. And let’s talk about trousers. So, 90% of the trousers I wear on a day to
day basis are going to be blue and gray because those two colors work with almost everything
in my interchangeable wardrobe. Now, the nice thing about blue is blue jeans
I absolutely love a dark-colored blue jeans, it works for my lifestyle, it definitely works
with the boots, and it’s going to match almost any sports jacket in my arsenal right
over here. Next up, let’s talk about the shirts that
make up the majority of my interchangeable wardrobe. You’re going to notice that two colors dominate
– blue and white. If you think that’s boring, you’ve got
no imagination, guys. Just look at these beautiful patterns here. You can go with something like that. Any one of these shirts are going to go with
any of my interchangeable trousers and are going to work with my sports jackets. Now, let’s talk about the jackets in my
interchangeable wardrobe. You notice, three colors dominate. We’ve got the browns, we have the blues,
and we have the greens. Guys, I can simply take what I talk about
earlier. Those blue jeans, bring in some boots. This shirt right here, notice how this combination
will look just great with the sports jacket or with a leather jacket with a trucker jacket
with a suede jacket. That’s because I took the time to put together
an interchangeable wardrobe where every item is going to work with every other piece. So, my next tip for you to dress sharp without
having to think about it, work with a style curator. This is an expert that understands body types,
understands complexions. They could look at you and listen to you about
your needs and your wants and they can put together a set of outfits so that you can
start to look sharp without having to really put in much work. That could cost you quite a bit of money if
you want to work with someone who their sole job is to go in and put together pieces, but
it could be worth it. Now, if you’re looking for less expensive
option, an option doesn’t matter where you’re at in the world, guys, go check out Bombfell,
the paid sponsor of today’s video. Guys, Bombfell is an easier way for men to
get better clothes. It’s fully personalized. Every piece has been handpicked for you by
your own stylist. Now, this is how it works. First, you sign up and you indicate your measurements
and style preferences. Next, you set up your order. You let them know exactly what you want to
get or you can just say, hey, surprise me based off these preferences. Next, you get to preview email. And this is your stylist, they put together
an outfit and you get to actually look at the outfit before they send it out and say
I like this or I don’t, so you can cancel you can change anything, you can let them
know you don’t like it, or you can just confirm the order. Next, you receive the clothing. You’ve got seven days to try the clothing
on before you’re charged. You return what you don’t like and you only
pay for what you keep. All right, guys, so this is what I got from
Bombfell. This outfit here, what do you think? This is the fit of the shirt, I really actually
like it. The fit was spot on. Now, the sweater, I wouldn’t have normally
chosen this sweater especially with the herringbone pattern, maybe with that casual pocket on
the left arm right there, but I actually like it and, again, the fit is spot on. Next up, let’s talk about the pants. The fit is spot on and the style is pretty
good. The only thing I don’t really like about
it is going to be right here on the thighs. It’s got a little bit of a lighter color. I like my denim just a solid color throughout. So, for this reason, I probably would send
this denim back. So, another cool thing I like about Bombfell
is if you keep two items, you save 10%, you keep three items, you save 15%, you keep four
items, you save 20% on the entire purchase. Guys, I’m linking to Bombfell down in the
description of this video with the best deal you’re going to find out there, $25 off
your first purchase. To take advantage of this, go to Bombfell.com/RMRS. Again, that’s B-O-M-B-F-E-L-L.com/RMRS for
the best deal you’re going to find out there. The next step to looking amazing without having
to do much work is to purge your closet of all the clutter all the items that are in
the way and basically are distracting you from looking your best. So, anything that stained, anything that is
irreparably damaged, anything that doesn’t fit you, get a box and put a date on it, put
everything in that box. I mean take a couple of boxes, seal it up,
put it at the back of your closet. And if you don’t open it for a year, then
donate those items. [0:05:04]
But now, look in your empty drawers, you’ve maybe only three pairs of socks left. So, go out there and purchase some nice new
socks. But, look at the socks you’re wearing, the
ones you really like and by duplicates, nothing wrong with having multiple pairs of socks
that all look the same. Then, look at your shoes, if you’re wearing
the same boots again and again, maybe get one, again, in a slightly different color,
but the same style and that you start to develop your uniform. Your uniform sends the message you want to
send and actually controls that image and there’s nothing wrong with a man having
a go-to uniform. So, the next tip to improve your style without
much effort is to level up your accessories. And a lot of you guys resist spending good
money on nice sunglasses or other pieces, oftentimes this is a loop in which you simply
don’t take care of your sunglasses because you know they’re cheap and you’re rough
with them. But, I know for me, when I first spent good
money on a nice pair of sunglasses, first off, I saw that I could see much clearer. They were – they were amazing and then all
of a sudden I realized I did put them in the case, I was careful. Why not bring in some variety as well? So, you know you like that, you know, cooler
lens there, why not bring in something with a bit of color? Maybe a reflective lens. Why not change it up bring in a pair of clubmasters? It’s not full Wayfarers, but it is something
that’s going to immediately change up the look. My point, gentlemen, is that accessories can
have a huge effect on your overall look. It’s like a chain, it’s only as strong
as its weakest link, so make sure you pay attention to the accessory. Go for a fashion piece, go for a piece of
higher quality, but change up your accessories, have fun with them. The next tip to level up your style without
much effort, be prepared. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of
cure. Have you ever had one of those mornings you
got a big presentation and nothing is right? You can’t find your keys, your sports jacket
has a stain, you can’t find your trousers, your shirt because it’s down in the laundry,
your shoes are scuffed. Guys, you are not prepared. You want to make it easier so when you wake
up everything is just simply laid out, everything is in its place, everything can be found,
everything is ready to go. So, leverage valets. I love things like these, they have got the
sunglasses, they’ve got the keys, everything is where it should be. My jacket is hung, my trousers are ready,
everything is pressed, your shoes are shined. When you have systems like this, it is easy
to look sharp. All right, gents, so this next tip to level
up your style without much work, it’s kind of a mind act and that is you’re going to
dress sharp for one person – yourself. When you’re at home, you’re going to practice
dressing sharp, you’re going to bring in new styles, you’re going to try something
different. You are literally going to dress better at
one home when no one sees you than you do when you go out. Why would you do this? We worry about what other people think, but
here is the deal is that most people are concerned with themselves and it’s about you building
confidence to become a better dressed man, you’re practicing. So all of a sudden you start to realized,
I feel pretty good in this bowtie. You wear it around town, nobody says anything,
in fact, you get compliments. You build up that confidence bit by bit and
all of a sudden you become a sharp-dressed man just simply by practicing and dressing
better on your own. The next tip for you to level up your style
without much effort is to steal the style of your favorite celebrity, of your favorite
musician, of your favorite actor, and, guys, no one’s going to notice except you. You’re going to look at yourself in the
mirror and you’re going to say, I look great. So, maybe you’ve got a complexion like Edris
Elba, look at the colors that work with his dark complexion and steal those. Maybe you’ve got the built of Ryan Gosling
and you’ve got his lighter complexion, then look at what looks great on this guy. And if you want more, you want to be inspired,
guys, check out this video right here. I’ve got 59 well-dressed men from around
the world no matter what your complexion is no matter what your build is, I try to cover
a wide variety here. Check out this video if you want some inspiration. And after everything, if this still sounds
like a lot of work here like, Antonio, come on make it easy. Guys, that’s why I’m linking to Bombfell
down in the description of this video. Go click on that link. That’s Bombfell.com/RMRS. You’re going to get the best deal out there
$25 off your first purchase with Bombfell and I have to admit, again, I loved the outfit
they put together. I was very happy that they nailed it on the
fit. And when it comes down to it, they actually
have a stylist who goes through looks at all the information you put in there. It’s individually curated, you’ve got
to love you can go in there and adjust it, you know, before they send it out. You can send everything back if you don’t
want it. I just love a service like this that makes
it easier for you to become a sharp-dressed man. Click on that link down in the description. And, remember, if you want more I’m putting
out videos Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday, Sunday, and now, Mondays here at Real Men Real Style
so I can continue to put out great solid information, so you can become the man you know yourself
to be. That’s it, guys. Take care. I’ll see you in the next video. [0:09:37] End of Audio

100 thoughts on “7 Tips To Look Stylish Without Trying Too Hard (Master Sprezzatura & Look Amazing With No Effort)”

  • Check out Bombfell here https://www.bombfell.com/rmrs and get $25 off your first order.

    Do you agree with this list? Comment below!

  • Antonio your Mother used to get you ready for school & in turn you get your wife ready for work . Although I liked the GI Jane look.

  • The tips are really great.
    Especially the socks tip. Own more than one pair of the same, or just buy socks that look different enough. I used to have like 4 pairs of dark blue or black socks. Looked almost the same, were a pain in the ass to sort them after washing xD

  • Sry Antonio, but Sprezzatura is not effortless style the way you describe it, it's almost the opposite. It's making it seem like it was put together effortlessly like there was no thought behind it or you didnt pay much attention. Gentlemans Gazette did a really good video about it. This video is still great, but Sprezzatura is just not something I would use in this context.

  • I'm a huge fan of French Cuff shirts. Every formal event, I will always wear one. Cufflinks just add that little extra in the style that you wouldn't notice immediately but still add to the overall look.

  • I have never been a fan of brown especially brown shoes to me black shoes are the best cause what color doesn't look good with black and if I wear brown shoes and a red shirt that does not look good or or a green shirt and brown shoes ill

  • Please sir tell us that what should do teenagers to upgrade their personality like grooming dressing sense upgrade hairstyles suited colour clothes on every skin complexion and casual also I'll hope that you will tell us all the things

  • I have never emphasized, thought of, or really shopped for accessories — until this year. "Now" I have a great selection of options, thanks in great part to your great advice — and sponsors. 😉

  • I always think of Italian footballer Andrea Pirlo when I think of Sprezzatura. Not so much in his choice of clothing, but perhaps his (lack of) facial expressions 😂

  • am not a style expert, but am i the only who one, who really finds the outfit from Bomfell sucks! especially the belt

  • Now THIS is why I tell my friends this is my favorite channel on YouTube. Another outstanding video. Interchangeable wardrobe is the key; and, I'm all about sprezzatura.

  • One thing that I would have in on this list is leather accessories. Like you can trough on t-shirt, jeans, and boots instead of sneakers, and a leather jacket. You can trough on the same outfit and bring in a nice leather bag.

    These leather accessories are filling the function of elevating the style. I know that you have touched this in many of your videos, but it is one thing for the comments! 👌😃

  • Hi Antonio , i'm learning how to become a well dressed men and this type of videos are the best thing to teach me more things about fashion ! Thank you , keep going !

  • Antonio I just love supporting you because I learn now things every day so thanks everything and I am looking up too you you look great in that outfit bro

  • Ah man, I really wanted to try out Bombfell, but they don't ship internationally. Is there a service like them that ships internationally? Thanks. Maybe a RMRS box haha 😉

  • Hi antonio just an honest advice you should change your thumbnail pictures and should try something else just care about u like u do about us

  • I know you need to make your money.. but at least try to be subtle. It just looks thirsty. The content is good, but really keep it to one commercial in the middle or end– you don't seem like you are being authentic when it becomes a "pitch." Do you really use them all the time or did you start only after they became an advertiser? Seriously, I enjoy the content of what you are teaching. Perhaps be more straightforward in the ads, we will appreciate you more for it.

  • Antonio, I love one way to dress, I follow every point you mention but every person of my age that sees me with a dress shirt and a nice tie, they look at me like I'm some kind of stranger to them
    What can I do? Do I change my style and try others or keep the one I like ?

  • This is a great video! Standing in front of a rack of clothes, as if to intercept, and redirect bad style decisions is exactly why I originally subscribed. Another classic!

  • A lot of times, guys that obsess over their style or looks are self-absorbed and douchey… I’m all for taking care of ones self, but some of these guys are obnoxious… (not you) mostly college kids.

  • interchangeable wardrobe: the best way to save money and Space in your closet. I've started to build up my own a few years ago. I have some "statement" pieces too, though (like my colorful shirts, bold shoes)

  • I'm gonna start a new job and I was looking to start wearing a suit everyday, as it seems appropriate. Thing is I only have one suit for now and I can't buy any because I live in a remote area. I'll have to fly 1500 km to find a proper suit and since I want the perfect fit I won't buy it online. That said how long do you think it should take to go from no suit to suits everyday? It's gonna be weird if after just a couple weeks working with shirts I suddenly show up from monday to friday with a full range of new suits!

  • Thanks for that – sprezzatura. A bit like shaving, as a kid you [email protected]#k it up, as an adult it comes naturally, you know the upward, downward, and sideways strokes, and what razor to use. Same with style. As a kid you experiment and [email protected]#k it up, eventually it just comes naturally. This works with that, that works with this, but you're not thinking consciously about it. Certainly works with women, my three significant SOs were attracted by my appearance and the clothes I was wearing, as they told me later, even though, for me, I was just flinging on whatever came to hand.

  • Are there rules of integrating black into the wardrobe if I always preferred black to brown? And is there an alternative to green? Most of my old clothes are just navy, black and grey, and Im not a fan of green, much, I dont think. And how does inverting dark shirt and light jacket effect anything else?

  • The video doesn’t have anything to do with Sprezzatura. This video is about how to build a versatile wardrobe. Sprezzatura is something completely different. Weird. Also you have done already dozens of these „how to build a wardrobe“ videos. This is just more of the same. I suspect you only did it just to have a reason to name that sponsor. These online fashion curators do always suck anyway. The outfit you presented here is just another bad example. The jumper doesn’t fit you at all. The sleeves are way too long. The jeans are awful. Not only the wash/color but also the fit. And the pattern of the shirt is…well, just burn it.

  • 5^5 = 625 outfits is my base philosophy.
    They might not all of them work out perfectly, but I am after expression and functionality, and they all beats same jeans and t-shirt from the washingbasket every day.

    Then go:
    white,
    grey,
    black,
    light blue,
    dark blue,
    light brown,
    medium brown,
    dark brown.

    Add some green mostly dark
    and a little dark red.

  • I’ve been using Bombfell for 2 years. It’s like Stitch Fix but with world class customer service. Highly recommend

  • whats up with those extra long sleeves on your sweater and extralong jeans Antonio every one can see the extra lengt on seater and jeans

  • Good informative video. As always good information and we presented. I learn something new from every video. Keep up the good work!!!

  • Antonio, can you please provide a link or a shop where I can find a storage box like this for my EDC items? Or what should I look for on Google? 😀

  • You might have already done a video on it, but trousers are a nightmare being only 5ft 4" . .. everything needs to be sent to a tailor to get shortened . . . any places that can get around this you know of . . . or any general tips . . . that's my style challenge . . .

  • I had a hard time adjusting the monitor..What!! no black colors!!..LoL In stores they sell a lot of black and grey colors.

  • I watch TMF, Alpha M etc, but don't often comment – the tip about dressing sharp at home; brilliant! What a great way to test out new styles and get comfortable with them. Also cool when someone turns up, and they're all like "Whoa sorry, are you on the way out?", so you're all "Nah, i was just playing some Playstation, i always dress like this!" 🙂

  • Antonio can you make a video for teens. I watch your channel it’s amazing but I can’t use a lot of your tips because I’m a teenager

  • I always appreciate that you use low volume levels on the intro music. It really signals reliability, and I can just listen while doing something else without disturbing my neighbours if I forgot to pay attention.

  • One of the biggest tips – always send your dress shirts to a LAUNDRY for cleaning and pressing. That $2-$3 per shirt makes a huge difference. And, never wear a shirt more than TWICE before cleaning it again.

  • Wouldn’t you be able to scam them like stitch fix. Just use a visa gift card to pay for it and keep the clothes no matter what?

  • Man, there's a world of difference between your stuff and that screeching beta dude. I know he's your friend but he is ….ugh!
    Thanks for the video.

  • God, no. Please. Interchangeable wardrobes is just another word for streamlining your style. You end up without any statement items. You will just look generically classy but ultimately boring. Dare to branch out, add some color, go for several different patterns that challenge you to actually put some thought into how you're dressing. Sprezzatura is about simplicity, not reductionism.

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